Now large crowds were traveling with him; and he turned and said to them, “Whoever comes to me and does not hate father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, yes, and even life itself, cannot be my disciple. Whoever does not carry the cross and follow me cannot be my disciple. For which of you, intending to build a tower, does not first sit down and estimate the cost, to see whether he has enough to complete it? Otherwise, when he has laid a foundation and is not able to finish, all who see it will begin to ridicule him, saying, ‘This fellow began to build and was not able to finish.’ Or what king, going out to wage war against another king, will not sit down first and consider whether he is able with ten thousand to oppose the one who comes against him with twenty thousand? If he cannot, then, while the other is still far away, he sends a delegation and asks for the terms of peace. So therefore, none of you can become my disciple if you do not give up all your possessions.
As we look at this passage, First Jesus is heading to Jerusalem. He knows what he is heading there to do. He know what the Cross is and what it means. DEATH. We are know that he is traveling with a large crowd. So his Questions here are specific. He wants to know who is a FAN or who is a Disciple. I often wonder this on occasion for myself. Am I a fan or a Disciple. Most people would probably say they are a fan of Jesus. That he said some inspiration stuff and did some good deeds. But would you follow him. Would you trust him and go where he was going?
Jesus mentions we must hate our family and friends. In some translation it is “Love me more than”. The Point is we have to give up or let of something to follow him.
I think the parables he gives are important because it realize who we follow and what we do matters. Notice how in both parables Jesus says “sit down and consider.” In the busy world we live in today. How often do we sit down and consider what we do, who we follow, where our money is going? etc. If you want specific answers from me, go else where. You need to answer these questions for yourself.
So back to the question at hand. What is the Cost of following Jesus?
I found this wonderful piece that I graciously borrowed from some Franciscan Sisters in North Dakota. It certainly gives me a starting place to begin sitting down and counting.
“GIVE UP ALL YOUR POSSESSIONS,TAKE THE CROSS AND FOLLOW ME”
† Give up judging others; take up the Christ dwelling in them
† Give up emphasis on our differences; take up our oneness
† Give up the darkness around us; take up the light of Christ
† Give up ill thoughts; take up the healing power of God
† Give up words that pollute; take up words that purify
† Give up discontent; take up gratitude
† Give up withholding anger; take up sharing our feelings
† Give up pessimism; take up optimism
† Give up worry; take up trust
† Give up guilt; take up freedom
† Give up complaining; take up appreciation
† Give up stress; take up self-care
† Give up hostility; take up letting go
† Give up bitterness; take up forgiveness
† Give up selfishness; take up compassion for others
† Give up discouragement; take up seeing the good
† Give up apathy; take up enthusiasm
† Give up suspicion; take up seeing the good
† Give up idle gossip; take up spreading good news
† Give up being so busy; take up quiet silence
† Give up problems; take up prayerful trust
† Give up talking; take up listening
† Give up trying to be in control; take up letting go.
Grace and Peace to you on your journey toward Discipleship.